This is the most debatable topic of this time. You are never 100 percent sure on whom to trust and whom not to. Even in personal lives many people tend to hide their relationships with their closed friends in the fear of getting exposed. An affair is mostly enjoyed with great privacy. Having said that the ongoing affairs do not guarantee substantial acceptance until its legalized. The pace of the affairs are never constant. It like hit and trail and some people stay with it while some ditch and just move on. If a person has been in a array of relationships it goes very hard to make him stable as to him relationships are just another activity in every day life. While there are so many ups and downs in a particular relationship why do someone need to discuss it. Is he doing it intentionally to prove himself as womanizer or he is really looking forward for your suggestions with full trust on you. If he is discussing his problems with you then how good are you at keeping his secrets. Don’t act moron by spreading rumors about your colleagues. Wait for his approval before announcing it publicly. Below are some careful considerations that you need to take while discussing your personal relationships with your office colleagues.

1. Talk only when you Trust: Do not keep on talking to anyone about your relationships. Talk only to the colleagues who care for you and whom you can trust that your secrets would be up to him only.

2. Do not overthink: If something is troubling you a lot its better to discuss it with someone and get a solution. In this process people tend to ignore with whom they have discussed their issues and by the time they realize their secrets turns into a public affair. So firstly stop overthinking a lot. Exercise your brain .If you still need help consult a psychiatrist.

3. Avoid tell tales: Office is a place where you would find human creatures of all nature. Do not fall prey to their false assurance. Be sensible in discussing your affairs with the right person.

4.Talk to a limit: Its is always good to discuss your problem completely. But don’t be a open book at the first discussion. Try discussing in parts which will give you sufficient time in analyzing and trusting the person with whom you are discussing the issue.

5.Avoid desperation and control emotions: It is easy to say but very difficult when it comes to practice. Try exercising your brain. The course is easily available at any of the popular websites. Exercising brain would help you in controlling emotions and avoid desperation.

Hope this article may bring some enlightenment in the lives of my colleagues who are actually looking out to execute this option. BE AWARE. BE SAFE

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